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Dad

Dad. Isn't it crazy to think that for me that word has only applied to one person for the past 27 years? It's not like "ambitious" or "kind" which can apply to multiple people throughout life. One word, for one man. It's even crazier to believe that, in 6 months, that word will now apply to me for the rest of my life. Becoming someone's husband wasn't that hard. Life didn't suddenly change the second we became husband and wife. We continued loving each other, caring for each other, joking with each other, and simply being there for each other. I am someone's husband and it isn't that hard to say that. Dad is different.  I barely feel like I have enough control over my life and now suddenly I'm going to have control of two lives. I know how to cook about 5 meals on rotation. I lose my stuff all the time. I have a calendar with all our events written down and I still forget about them. Even right now, while writ...